Now he won't even talk to me! I don't get enough hours to qualify for insurance. Should I call corporate? Will they do anything to help me? I know it's my fault. Please help me! I really need some advice.
First: It is not your fault. It takes two consenting adults to create a baby. This is a no fault situation. Nature takes its course when two people mate...
I am curious about how old you are and how old he is. It is always a bad idea to fool around with co workers. He could get fired if his managers found out.
I do not like abortion but I am not going to argue with you one way or another about it. If you do have the baby, make sure to sign up for child support from him. There are state sponsored ways for getting prenatal care. Check with the welfare office, etc.
If anything, it's this guy's fault for overstepping boundaries, and he can get fired for not keeping his wang where it belongs.
That aside, if you do have the baby, get child support. You might also want to transfer stores if you can. Granted, it might not even do any good once you get into your later trimesters. Also, if you are young (like under 18), he can get into even more trouble. Be prepared to get a paternity test done if he tries to challenge it.
You will qualify for welfare at this point (there's so much stigma behind that, and folks don't know that "welfare queens" cannot exist in this day and age in most states), and you will be able to qualify for insurance as well.
Try not to stress too much. It is normal to be scared. But stress is horrible for pregnant women.
-- Edited by thestruggleisreal on Sunday 8th of February 2015 09:13:27 AM
First: It is not your fault. It takes two consenting adults to create a baby. This is a no fault situation. Nature takes its course when two people mate...
What do you mean it's not her fault? Everyone is always so quick to blame the guy in these situations. As you stated, it takes two people to create a baby. The woman/girl should be responsible enough to say the word, "No." For all we know, she might have been the one that did the pursuing.
First: It is not your fault. It takes two consenting adults to create a baby. This is a no fault situation. Nature takes its course when two people mate...
What do you mean it's not her fault? Everyone is always so quick to blame the guy in these situations. As you stated, it takes two people to create a baby. The woman/girl should be responsible enough to say the word, "No." For all we know, she might have been the one that did the pursuing.
You're a prick. They never said the man was at fault, they just said it takes two consenting adults and that is was a no fault situation.
However, given that he's a manager, yes it is his fault in the sense that he was the one who broke the rules of the company, not her. He needs to own up to it, not just professionally, but for the baby as well. Even if she did the "pursuing", unless she raped him, he could have said "no" too.
First: It is not your fault. It takes two consenting adults to create a baby. This is a no fault situation. Nature takes its course when two people mate...
What do you mean it's not her fault? Everyone is always so quick to blame the guy in these situations. As you stated, it takes two people to create a baby. The woman/girl should be responsible enough to say the word, "No." For all we know, she might have been the one that did the pursuing.
First: It is not your fault. It takes two consenting adults to create a baby. This is a no fault situation. Nature takes its course when two people mate...
What do you mean it's not her fault? Everyone is always so quick to blame the guy in these situations. As you stated, it takes two people to create a baby. The woman/girl should be responsible enough to say the word, "No." For all we know, she might have been the one that did the pursuing.
Misogynist.
Sharing the blame is Misogyny? Whatever floats your boat, I guess.
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If he's good at what he does one day he will be a store manager, that's when he starts to make the big bucks. Turn him in, he's turned his back on you find some one worth your time till then he will be supporting your child. Apply for gov insurance. You'll get food stamps, blue checks. The gov will even take care of cost of baby formula. Lol if any one should worry it should be him, its against company policy he is an (idiot)....
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