Im so excited you have no idea. I been suffering suicidal and homicidal ideation, been hospitalized, never had a issue in 30 years till my 10 years at Kroger's. Didn't even know I had this sleeper sickness in me? Kroger brought it out.
I got a fmla, they ignored it. I was scheduled during my therapy no matter how many times I verbally, or physically wrote, what times they were, that the fmla covers them, and I don't want to do it either..
I've used a single fmla day in 6 months, I got a tremendous amount of **** for it, they even made me "witness" people being written up for call ins (small intimidation tactic).
This has made my sickness so much worse.
My wife noticed my isolation, aggrivated nature, extreme weight loss, literally physically collapsing, throwing up, my body won't digest food. The entire way I am being called a liar and harassed by the company, making it worse.
I feel I really need to emphasize, prior to this I didn't believe depression or anxiety were real, I thought people faked it for attention and just didn't have "control", so If you do have issues, I am sorry, my opinions changed.
It was getting very very bad. They were talking about involuntarily committing me cause I couldn't stop putting work 200% above everything, health, therapy, wife, kid.
My wife was offered a job, a real job, not Kroger. If she takes this I can walk. It's like someone taking a loaded gun out of my hand.
Im scared and happy, she is waiting for a call back and I am terrified if she doesn't get it, it might be unreversibly devastating.
I tried to leave krogers 4 times. Each time they stopped me. Missing interviews by calling my hour, refusing to let me take a education leave cause "courses" are not college and therefor not education. Stuff like that. I tried my damndest.
I need this, Kroger's is literally killing me. I'm so scared it won't happen. I'm so sick of being berated, abused, belittled and harassed.
Just needed to get this out. Kopefully someone new at Kroger's sees this and runs, before getting trapped.
If you pray, please pray for me. I don't believe it but all I got anymore is hope.
(I'm safe right now, I can't afford a therapist after the insurance change, but I'm doing OK I guess.)
What a baby ass LOSER. Your kind is at the heart of everything that's wrong with the modern world. It's all about you, isn't it? What a lucky woman your wife is to have you
The tragedy here is, lately there's been such high troll traffic nobody knows whether or not to take this seriously..
She got the job, If you were the one praying, thanks lol.. Holy **** it hasn't sunk in yet that its over.
Congrats I'm just now reading this thread, but Kroger has caused anxiety and issues for many people, I've heard stories. So I'm happy to see you are getting out of a bad situation, take care of yourself. God bless.
The tragedy here is, lately there's been such high troll traffic nobody knows whether or not to take this seriously..
She got the job, If you were the one praying, thanks lol.. Holy **** it hasn't sunk in yet that its over.
Congrats I'm just now reading this thread, but Kroger has caused anxiety and issues for many people, I've heard stories. So I'm happy to see you are getting out of a bad situation, take care of yourself. God bless.
That you're letting a sh!tty job like Kroger get to you that bad, you need a lot more help than you should expect to find here
Im aware it's a me problem. I am a pleaser and not being able to do what I'm asked destroys me.
Like I said. Tried to get help and couldnt afford it along with Kroger's not working with me.
So I had to get out to save myself.
Already got another job lined up for 34 hours a week making 400$ a year less than what I was at Kroger. But overall we have a increase in finances to the house by about $20000and 300k less stress.
