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I work in meat department and this girl is a clerk. Meaning im on the other side of the store. Im not sure what to say or when to say it. Im hoping to catch her on break. I am worried about crossing the employee line and making things awkward. I really like this girl. Any advice guys?



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I work in meat department and this girl is a clerk. Meaning im on the other side of the store. Im not sure what to say or when to say it. Im hoping to catch her on break. I am worried about crossing the employee line and making things awkward. I really like this girl. Any advice guys?


 I'm not sure what you mean by that but.... hey, just talk to her and after you get to know her a little tell her that you like her and want to go out with her. The worst that can happen is that she tells you "no".

 

(Note: This is coming from someone who, currently, doesn't have a girlfriend. BUT thinks Anonymouse1 likes him.)



-- Edited by BagBoy on Saturday 12th of September 2015 11:37:21 PM

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Ask her if she can wrap your meat.



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I work in meat department and this girl is a clerk. Meaning im on the other side of the store. Im not sure what to say or when to say it. Im hoping to catch her on break. I am worried about crossing the employee line and making things awkward. I really like this girl. Any advice guys?


 I'm not sure what you mean by that but.... hey, just talk to her and after you get to know her a little tell her that you like her and want to go out with her. The worst that can happen is that she tells you "no".

 

(Note: This is coming from someone who, currently, doesn't have a girlfriend. BUT thinks Anonymouse1 likes him.)



-- Edited by BagBoy on Saturday 12th of September 2015 11:37:21 PM


 lol.  I am flattered but I am also a boy.  Not that there is anything wrong with that.  But, if you like girls, I want you to be chasing girls.  The other anonymouses might be girls.

 

I don't have any good advice for the OP.  I thought this one young produce girl was cute.  But, I am old enough to be her dads older brother.  I made small talk with her about Kroger and college.  I do not think she minded chatting with me.  I was trying to get to know her so I could set her up with a young friend of mine that was close to her age.  I think they would have made a great couple.  But, she moved out of state to go to college and I never got to know her well enough. 

For the OP:  If she is near your age range, keep conversations simple.  It is a bad practice to date coworkers at any job.  If the relationship goes south, it will make the job difficult.  Find a way to say, "Hi" every once in a while but try not to be obvious.  If she starts conversations with you, then find out more about her.  Try to be casual work friends and be happy with that.  I am not sure how to proceed from there. 



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BagBoy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

I work in meat department and this girl is a clerk. Meaning im on the other side of the store. Im not sure what to say or when to say it. Im hoping to catch her on break. I am worried about crossing the employee line and making things awkward. I really like this girl. Any advice guys?


 I'm not sure what you mean by that but.... hey, just talk to her and after you get to know her a little tell her that you like her and want to go out with her. The worst that can happen is that she tells you "no".

 

(Note: This is coming from someone who, currently, doesn't have a girlfriend. BUT thinks Anonymouse1 likes him.)



-- Edited by BagBoy on Saturday 12th of September 2015 11:37:21 PM


 lol.  I am flattered but I am also a boy.  Not that there is anything wrong with that.  But, if you like girls, I want you to be chasing girls.  The other anonymouses might be girls.

 

I don't have any good advice for the OP.  I thought this one young produce girl was cute.  But, I am old enough to be her dads older brother.  I made small talk with her about Kroger and college.  I do not think she minded chatting with me.  I was trying to get to know her so I could set her up with a young friend of mine that was close to her age.  I think they would have made a great couple.  But, she moved out of state to go to college and I never got to know her well enough. 

For the OP:  If she is near your age range, keep conversations simple.  It is a bad practice to date coworkers at any job.  If the relationship goes south, it will make the job difficult.  Find a way to say, "Hi" every once in a while but try not to be obvious.  If she starts conversations with you, then find out more about her.  Try to be casual work friends and be happy with that.  I am not sure how to proceed from there. 


 Anonymice, you mean?



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I think they meant anonymous's, there only one anonymouse!



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if she's cute, there is probably a list of other males that want to get close to her if you know what I mean.  I'm saying act fairly quickly.  See who she talks to the most (up front, it may be a male or female) and talk to them.  You might say "what's ___'s story?"  they'll likely tell the girl that you asked about her.  I've had success with this so ignore any negativity you might get here, just be careful and if she says "no" or makes it obvious that she doesn't want to be more than friends, don't push the issue.  You don't want to get a harrassment claim against you.  I don't think you can get in any trouble for asking, just know that "no" means no and move on



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Grab her ass



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